Conservative Christian Vegans
What are the dating prospects for a gay, teetotaling, non-smoking, mildly conservative, vegan atheist?
I am a gay 21 years old, about to turn 22, I have never been in a relationship.
Now obviously I wouldn’t expect to, nor would I want to find a partner with all of the qualities mentioned in my question, but I would require at least some, for example I couldn’t date a non-vegan or someone who drinks regularly or smokes at all.
I grew up with Christian values and even though I am now an atheist, it has shaped some of my morals, for example, I believe you should be in love before having sex and I am sure it would take least a month or two before before such a thing could be determined.
Politically I am neither ultra-liberal, nor ultra-conservative. Most people are probably similar, but my impression is that in the gay, and vegan communities, there’s a very strong liberal bias. I want to transcend such onesidedness.
So where the hell should I start looking? I honestly believe that my values are so eccentric that I have little chance of ever finding what I desire.
Thank you.
You sound absolutely divine to me. If you were straight, I’d chase you down like the meat-free hottie you are. You are not eccentric. Listen, I know several gay men with values similar to yours. My advice? Move to a university town with a diverse, cosmopolitan community of people. Take salsa classes. Join a animal rights group. Attend a Unitarian Universalist church. You will find men like yourself, I promise. Just be firm in your beliefs, never compromise yourself, and trust that the right man will enter your life. Believe me: He is out there and he probably feels just as isolated as you do. Good luck.
Extremist make me sick.
You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed. Both comments and pings are currently closed.
Comments are closed.